What Don Draper gets wrong
Q: In the hit TV show "Mad Men," which ended its season Sunday, Don Draper becomes the de facto leader of the fictional ad agency, despite his cool detachment, his brusque manner and his brutal honesty. He follows the old adage that it is better to be feared and respected than liked, but he's also fiercely loyal to people who do good work. Does Don Draper pass the leadership test?
Don Draper has a few things right: it is actually a huge weakness when leaders focus, either consciously or unconsciously, on being liked. It is impossible to please everyone, and sometimes difficult decisions need to be made that will hurt individuals in service of the greater good and the overall organizational interests. Good leaders must always place the interests of the organization first, and too great a focus on being liked can get in the way of this necessity. And fierce loyalty and brutal honesty: these are good qualities that will help employees and a workplace thrive (the latter, which can be painful at times, is necessary for healthy, transparent feedback).
But the old adage that it is better to be feared and respected than liked is lazy. All of the above can be carried out with compassion, and too often leaders seem to fall into a sadistic pattern of enjoying the power that comes with being feared.
In recent years, I have had the privilege of getting to know a real-life Mad Man who rose to prominence during that era--Keith Reinhard, CEO emeritus of DDB Worldwide and one of the architects of Omnicom, the first of the publicly traded ad networks that now dominate the industry. Although Don Draper is based on Draper Daniels, the creative head of Leo Burnett (creator of such iconographic ads as the Marlboro Man), Reinhard had an equally storied career. But what is most remarkable about Reinhard's career is how he led with compassion and humility. He often talks about leading DDB with "Four Freedoms": "Freedom from Fear," "Freedom to Fail," "Freedom from Chaos," and "Freedom to Be." Everyone knew he was the greatest creative in the room, but as he rose to CEO and built DDB Worldwide and Omnicom Group, he led with humility and compassion rarely seen in C-Suite.
Don Draper might be right that it is better to be respected than liked, but for the best leaders, fear has no place in a healthy organization.
October 18, 2010; 9:55 AM ET
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